ATTITUDE V/S ABILITY
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Leadership is both an
aptitude and attitude. But no matter how much intellectual ability you have, if
you don’t have the right attitude, your ability doesn’t mean anything. It's
your attitude which eventually determines your success in your area of gifting.
Your destiny is not determined by how much ability do you have. Your ability
matters, but if you don’t have the right attitude then your ability will become
a victim of your attitude.
How many times have you
agreed with something yet did not do it? How many times have you said to
yourself, “ That’s true”, but did not act on it? You believed in it because it
was true, but you were not to the point of conviction where it caused you to
act. Now, you might have the ability but you probably believe that there are
certain things you cannot do and say something like: “I don’t deserve this”, “
I can’t achieve that”, “ I can’t even think about that”. Its because of your
attitude which is a result of the beliefs that your parents, society and
yourself has put within you.
Now let me give you an
example of how attitude is much more important than your ability:
We say that the lion is
the king of the Jungle. But the lion is a great source of encouragement to all
of us. Here are some amazing facts about the lion:
The LION is not the
TALLEST animal in the jungle.
The LION is not the
LARGEST animal in the jungle.
The LION is not the
HEAVIEST animal in the jungle.
The LION is not the
SMARTEST or the most INTELLIGENT animal in the jungle.
.... and yet when
he shows up all run away.
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The Lion is the king of
the jungle because of one word ATTITUDE. The lion has a different attitude that
makes every animal afraid of him. Now, we don’t want to lead by fear but it
does takes respect for you to become a Leader. The fear in the jungle means
RESPECT. The elephant respects the lion, the giraffe respect the lion, the
hyenas respect the lion. What makes these massive animals respect such a small
cat?
The ATTITUDE is the
difference. For example, a lion will see an elephant and the thing that comes
to his mind is LUNCH. He thinks, “ I could eat this thing” and he acts the way
he thinks. Now the amazing thing is this; the elephant is larger, bigger,
stronger, powerful, heavier and more intelligent than the lion and yet when the
elephant sees the lion one word comes to his mind “CHEF”. The attitude makes
all the difference.
Now the elephant can
overpower the lion in every aspect but he is limited because of his attitude
whereas the lion despite of not having the same abilities as that of elephant
eats him because of the powerful mindset that he have. The lion is the king of
the jungle because of what he believes about himself.
The wealthiest person
in the world are usually not intellectuals or academic experts. I’m not saying
that they are not intelligent but that their financial success is not
attributed to their educations.
Computer entrepreneurs
Bill Gates and Steven Jobs are examples of successful people who didn’t do well
under a traditional educational experience. Although they dropped out of college,
they had a certain attitude that cause them to be convinced that they had
valuable ideas to develop. They believed in them, too. And we know that their
organization is a big success now.
Abraham Lincoln is
another example of a right attitude. He failed to accomplish his goals many
times, but he had an inner belief that he had something to offer his community,
his state and his nation. This attitude is what kept him in the race even when
he faced negative circumstances and failures. How do you react when you fail?
Do you have an inner belief that is stronger than your experience. Victor
Frankl, the holocasst survivor, said, “ It’ s not what happens to me that
matters, but what happens in me”.
Winston Churchill is
another good example of someone who preserved in his vision and in pursuing
what he believed was right. He knew that Nazism was a threat to the Great
Britain and the world, but he spent months and years as the lone voice of
warning before others realized the truth of what he was saying. He had a deep
conviction that kept him going. Under the pressure of circumstances and a sense
of responsibility for saving the nation of England, his leadership developed
and matured.
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Leaders think in a
certain way. Therefore, they manifest certain attributes and they work hard to
attain a certain aptitude and this causes them to think at a higher level, or
altitude. The more truth you know about yourself , the higher your thinking
will be. You will have an increasingly clear vision for your life. All those
areas need to be integrated for effective leadership. A leader has to have an
integration of attitude. So, the right kind of attitude is necessary to
exercise effective leadership.
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